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LPH61: Liz Fiordalisi on Unlocking Her Son’s Hidden Voice

LPH61: Liz Fiordalisi on Unlocking Her Son’s Hidden Voice

What if your child understood far more than the world ever realized?

Autism, non-speaking communication, spelling to communicate, apraxia, and caregiving are all part of this powerful conversation with Liz Fiordalisi. Liz shares the story of raising triplets, navigating a high-risk pregnancy, and watching her son Christopher slowly lose spoken language after meeting early developmental milestones. For years, their family searched for ways to better understand him while balancing therapies, school supports, and everyday life.

Everything changed when Christopher began using Spelling to Communicate recently. Through letter boards, he started sharing thoughts, memories, humor, and insight that had been hidden beneath the challenges of autism and apraxia. Liz’s story is a powerful reminder to never give up, to always presume competence, and that every person deserves the chance to be understood.

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LPH60: Bill Cushing Never Accepted “No” for Gabriel

LPH60: Bill Cushing Never Accepted “No” for Gabriel

What does it take to raise a child with multiple rare genetic conditions while fighting systems that constantly underestimate what your child needs?

In this episode of Let’s Plant Houses, Bill Cushing shares his family’s journey raising his son Gabriel, who was born with rare genetic disorders, developmental disabilities, strokes before birth, and physical challenges that required years of therapy and support. This conversation explores disability parenting, caregiving, medical advocacy, accessibility, and life after aging out of the school system. Bill opens up about adapting their home, navigating insurance battles, planning for Gabriel’s future, and learning how to push back when systems say no.

But this story is also about joy, resilience, and seeing the whole person beyond a diagnosis. Bill shares Gabriel’s love of music, art museums, the symphony, and volunteering in the community. It’s a powerful reminder that caregiving requires creativity, persistence, and a willingness to keep showing up, even when the path forward is uncertain.

More about the show…
Find Bill Cushing’s book of poems, A Former Life: https://finishinglinepress.com/product/a-former-life-by-bill-cushing/
Find more information about LPH host, Wendy Ernzen https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendyernzen.
Real stories. Real insights. Real life. Join the LPH newsletter: https://www.letsplanthouses.com/newsletter/
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LPH59: Rachel Gonyea Learned Caregiving as a Sister

LPH59: Rachel Gonyea Learned Caregiving as a Sister

What happens when a sibling grows up in a home filled with foster children, routines, and nonstop caregiving, and then realizes those experiences shaped who they were meant to become?

In this episode of Let’s Plant Houses, Rachel Gonyea shares what it was like growing up with a brother with autism while her family welcomed nearly 200 foster children into their home over the years. This conversation explores autism, foster care, caregiving, developmental disabilities, inclusion, sibling experiences, and the real-life challenges families navigate every day. Rachel opens up about routines, bullying, emotional overload, and the invisible work that happens inside families trying to meet many different needs at once.

But this story is also full of hope. Rachel reflects on how caregiving shaped her compassion, patience, and sense of purpose. She shares why lived experience matters, why children need support that truly works, and how her family’s journey inspired her to help foster children and people with disabilities in the future.

 

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Real stories. Real insights. Real life. Join the LPH newsletter: https://www.letsplanthouses.com/newsletter/
Feel free to contact Wendy Ernzen via email: letsplanthouses.com.
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LPH58: Heather Burroughs Fought for Her Daughter’s Voice

LPH58: Heather Burroughs Fought for Her Daughter’s Voice

What if your child had thoughts, opinions, and intelligence far beyond what the world believed, but no reliable way to communicate them?

In this episode of Let’s Plant Houses, Heather Burroughs shares her family’s journey through autism, rare genetic disorders, non-speaking communication, service dogs, and disability advocacy. Heather is the Director of Advocacy and Education at AutismUp and co-founder of the Finding Common Ground podcast. She opens up about raising multiple neurodivergent children, fighting for her daughter Devyn’s rights in school, and why families often have to push systems to see what their children are truly capable of.

Heather also shares how spelling to communicate changed her understanding of her daughter’s inner world and why she is now fighting for the Communication Bill of Rights in New York. This conversation is a powerful reminder that lived experience is real expertise and that families should never stop believing in their child’s potential.

More about the show…
Listen to Heather Burrough’s podcast, Finding Common Ground:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-common-ground/id1756178309
Find more information about LPH host, Wendy Ernzen https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendyernzen.
Real stories. Real insights. Real life. Join the LPH newsletter: https://www.letsplanthouses.com/newsletter/
Feel free to contact Wendy Ernzen via email: letsplanthouses.com.
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LPH57: Steve Gonyea Turned Special Needs Foster Parenting Into an Unstoppable Movement

LPH57: Steve Gonyea Turned Special Needs Foster Parenting Into an Unstoppable Movement

How did one foster dad build an autism barn and help nearly 180 children find belonging?

In this episode of autism advocacy, foster care, caregiving, and disability support, Steve Gonyea shows what families can build when they lead with love, trust, and lived experience. From welcoming nearly 180 foster children into his home to creating an autism barn and launching the Ability Bus program, Steve shares how his family turned their challenges into real solutions for many families.

This episode is a powerful reminder that caregivers are experts too, and that one family’s vision can spark a growing movement that is changing lives far beyond their own community. And for Steve Gonyea, with even bigger plans for the future, this is only the beginning.

 

More about the show…
Find resource in Helpipedia, the guides Steve helped build: https://www.ie-care.org/
Listen to Steve’s podcast, Finding Common Ground: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-common-ground/id1756178309
Find more information about LPH host, Wendy Ernzen https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendyernzen.
Real stories. Real insights. Real life. Join the LPH newsletter: https://www.letsplanthouses.com/newsletter/
Feel free to contact Wendy Ernzen via email: letsplanthouses.com.
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LPH56: Mark and John Cronin Turned Socks Into Purpose and Possibility

LPH56: Mark and John Cronin Turned Socks Into Purpose and Possibility

What happens when a father and son build their own path when the system has few options?

In this episode, Mark Cronin and his son, John, share their journey of Down syndrome, disability, entrepreneurship, and employment. Together, they started John’s Crazy Socks, a business that employs people with different abilities and has shipped over 500,000 packages to 94 countries. John’s Crazy Socks has also donated more than $800,000 to charity, including the Special Olympics. Their story shows what families can do when they believe in their child and refuse to accept limits placed on them by others.

Now that is growing into a movement. Through their nonprofit, Abilities Rising, Mark and John are helping other families start businesses, build job skills, and create real employment pathways for adults with different abilities. Their journey reminds us that when support does not exist, families build it, and when families share their stories, more people begin to understand what true support really means.

 

More about the show…

Learn more about Mark and John Cronin’s business, John’s Crazy Socks https://johnscrazysocks.com/
Find more information about LPH host, Wendy Ernzen https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendyernzen.
Real stories. Real insights. Real life. Join the LPH newsletter: https://www.letsplanthouses.com/newsletter/
Feel free to contact Wendy Ernzen via email: letsplanthouses.com.
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LPH55: Founder Kirby Rabalais Built Got4titude Through Fatherhood

LPH55: Founder Kirby Rabalais Built Got4titude Through Fatherhood

What happens when fatherhood asks you to put your career on hold and trust that your family will find a way forward?

In this episode about caregiving, disability, and fatherhood, Kirby Rabalais shares how raising a child with a rare genetic condition reshaped his priorities and his purpose. Families living with neurodivergence often carry invisible work every single day. Kirby reminds us that real life is more complex than most systems recognize, and that support must be practical, flexible, and human.

Kirby opens up about stepping back from his career to become his son’s primary caregiver, and how that season changed his life in the best way. From that experience, he founded Got4titude, a support community for fathers raising children with disabilities. His story shows that when families share what they are living, new ideas grow, new support takes shape, and meaningful change becomes possible.

LPH54: Author Randi-Lee Bowlaugh’s Relentless Search Finally Led to Answers

LPH54: Author Randi-Lee Bowlaugh’s Relentless Search Finally Led to Answers

What happens when you know something is wrong, but the system keeps telling you to wait?

In this episode, author Randi-Lee Bowlaugh shares her journey through autism, parenting, and mental health as she searched for answers for her daughter. From early concerns to years of missed support, her story shows how families often live in the gap between what they know and what systems are ready to provide.

Randi-Lee speaks honestly about trusting her instincts, changing doctors, and continuing to ask questions until someone finally listened. She reminds us that parents and caregivers are not just participants in the system. They are problem solvers and leaders who keep going, even when the path is long.

LPH53: Jillian Simpson-Eisloeffel Never Stops Fighting For Her Son

LPH53: Jillian Simpson-Eisloeffel Never Stops Fighting For Her Son

How do you hold on to hope when your child seems lost?

Autism, profound autism, parenting, and support are at the heart of this honest conversation with Jillian Simpson-Eisloeffel, Founder of Bobby’s World and Regional Lead for the New York Alliance for Developmental Disabilities. She shares what life looks like when a child has complex needs and when families must step in to create safety and stability at home. Her story helps us see the daily work that often goes unseen.

In this episode, Jillian talks about sleepless nights, constant vigilance, and the courage to keep searching for answers when nothing seemed to help. After pushing for deeper medical understanding, she has now begun to see small but powerful glimpses of her son again. Her journey shows how parents become problem solvers when systems fall short, and how persistence can open doors to new possibilities.

LPH52: Fantasy Author J.M. Shaw on Autism, Parenting, and Possibility

LPH52: Fantasy Author J.M. Shaw on Autism, Parenting, and Possibility

What happens when a parent discovers their child—and themselves—share the same diagnosis?

J.M. Shaw’s diagnosis changed everything, and helped her see her family’s story in a whole new light. In this episode, fantasy author J.M. Shaw shares her journey raising children with autism and ADHD while discovering her own diagnosis, offering real-life insight into parenting, neurodiversity, family life, and autism support.

You’ll hear how lived experience shaped the way she supports her children and how her family found new ways forward when help was hard to find. J.M. also shares how writing fantasy stories and novels became a creative outlet and a powerful way to explore autism, identity, and belonging. Her story offers insight into how families can discover strengths they never knew they had.